Start with sparkling water, tonic, ginger beer, citrus, bitters or a bitter non-alcoholic aperitif, and one fresh garnish. Then serve the drink in the same glassware you would use for a cocktail. The goal is not to mimic alcohol. It is to give guests a drink with temperature, texture, aroma, and intention. A mocktail bar is good hosting because it removes the awkward second-class option.
Build the station around structure, not sweetness. Alcohol brings heat, body, aroma, and bitterness; when it is absent, the drink still needs shape. Citrus gives lift. Bubbles give texture. Ginger, tea, spice, or bitter aperitif gives depth. Salt, herbs, and peel can make a simple soda feel finished.
Set out two base routes. The first can be bright: citrus, soda, simple syrup or honey, and mint. The second can be darker: tonic, ginger beer, black tea, bitters, or a non-alcoholic bitter aperitif. Guests can then choose refreshing or grown-up without needing a separate explanation.
Glassware matters because it signals care. Serve zero-proof drinks in coupes, rocks glasses, or highballs with real ice and garnish. Do not hand someone a can while everyone else gets a built drink unless that is what they asked for. Keep the language relaxed: “I have a citrus soda or a bitter ginger highball” sounds better than “Do you need a mocktail?”
Further reading: background on non-alcoholic mixed drinks, Allrecipes on stocking mixers and garnishes, and Bon Appetit on hosting atmosphere.